Talk openly about money
Share your incomes, savings, debts, and spending habits with your partner so you’re on the same page.

Pick your top three must-haves about money
Maybe it's the food, the venue, or photos. Put more of your budget toward what matters most and worry less about the rest.
Know your comfortable limit
Decide on the most you can spend without stressing about daily expenses and future plans. Ignore what others typically spend—your number should fit your own income, expenses, and financial goals.

Figure out who’s helping about money
If family or friends are offering to contribute, it helps to have a general sense of amounts early on.

Break down your budget about money
Get real quotes for everything—from your venue and food to mail stamps for invites. Leave a little extra (about 10-15%) for surprises and tips.